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10 Stress Management Techniques – Simple Guide!

Stress is an inevitable part of life. It comes and goes at the worst of times. Unfortunately, it can be a hindrance by decreasing productivity levels, increasing anxiety, and lowering our overall mood.

There are also many different kinds of stress that affect us in different ways.

Fortunately for all of us, there are things we can do to effectively manage stress and prevent it from completely taking over and causing burn out.

They range between self-care practices to integrating healthy routines into your everyday life.

Using a few of these techniques can be a complete game changer when implemented into a daily practice.

Disclaimer: I am not in any way a certified therapist so all the advice is given from my own experience and should not be taken as medical advice. 

 

 

What Is Stress?

Stress is your body’s response to changes in your life.

Because life involves constant change – ranging from every day, routine changes like commuting from home to work to adapting to major life changes like marriage, divorce, or death of a loved one – there is no avoiding stress.

Your goal shouldn’t be to eliminate all stress but to eliminate unnecessary stress and effectively manage the rest.

There are some common causes of stress that many people experience, but each person is different.

Here are a few of my favourite stress management techniques.

 

10 Stress Management Techniques

Accept there are some things you can’t control

This one takes no time at all really, but it does require a commitment to changing your mindset. A lot of the time we get stressed out by things that are totally out of control.

Because they are out of control it really becomes a waste of energy to constantly stress out over them.

For example, specific demands of your job, the fact that we’re living through a pandemic in 2020/2021, the weather, traffic, or the thoughts and actions of other people.

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I’m not saying you shouldn’t stress at all over things like this, but you can’t let it consume you and cause you stress day after day.

For the sake of a simple example: getting super stressed out on your long commute home through traffic. Unless you go find a new job closer to home this is totally out of your control.

So as a stress management technique, accept that fact and then make the most of the situation. For example, listen to an audio book or podcast, call a friend (hands free of course), or find somewhere new to stop and explore on the way home.

If not, you’re just going to be super stressed every evening and you’ll probably have no energy to do anything by the time you get home.

 

 

Be physically Active

Research consistently proves that physical activity both reduces stress levels and helps to prevent many of the negative side-effects of stressful life events.

The great news is that you don’t need to run a marathon or devote all your days to the gym to enjoy the benefits of exercise.

Almost any type of physical activity will help purge you of tension and lead to the production of endorphins; those “feel-good” chemicals that boost mood and energy.

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Aim for 30 minutes of exercise 3-5 times a week, but if your fitness levels are low then try starting out with just 10 minutes of activity.

As you exercise, tune into your bodily sensations and notice your own physicality; this is a form of mindfulness, which promotes stress control in itself.

Here are some fun and easy ways to get your heart rate up:

  • Dance to your favourite song
  • Walk to the store instead of driving
  • Walk your dog, or borrow someone else’s for half an hour
  • Take the stairs every time there’s an option
  • Find an exercise buddy, and go to classes together.

 

Start your day off right

High energy levels in the mornings (although this may sometimes seem impossible) are essential to start the day and, hopefully, end the day with a positive outlook and a clear mindset.

Staying hydrated, avoiding coming to work on an empty stomach and aiming to be well rested overnight will all contribute to better mornings and more motivation.

You may also find it beneficial to give yourself a little extra time in the mornings to get ready for the day. This will prevent rush and panic and ensure you are fully prepared for whatever is thrown your way.

 

 

Practice Mindfulness

Put simply, mindfulness means creating an awareness of ourselves in a present moment, by paying attention to our thoughts and feelings, noticing the world around us and reconnecting with the sensations it brings.

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Mindfulness can aid mental wellbeing – when you’re having a moment of stress, take a moment to stand back and reflect. You’ll notice how busy your mind can get, and mindfulness can help to slow it down.

You can find more mindfulness tips on the Mind website, including exercise to help you put it into practise.

 

 

Avoid unhealthy coping mechanisms

At the other end of the spectrum, smoking, drinking and binge-eating are all common coping strategies amongst people who are stressed, but turning to vices isn’t a legitimate way to process your emotions.

Take steps to remove these options, whether it’s not keeping cigarettes in the house or making a weekly meal plan so you can’t order takeaways, to help yourself to stop relying on these unhealthy habits. The short-term release is exhilarating, but they’re likely to make you feel worse in the long run.

 

Get Enough Sleep

Sleep deficit has just about become an epidemic in contemporary society. Continuously pushed to accomplish and produce, practically every single person is accountable for depriving themselves of rest.

In a stressful situation, you may attempt to “pull an all-nighter” to fulfil a deadline or do some last second studying, but contrary to what your over-stressed mind is suggesting; a well-rested mind and body will be able to achieve far more, without over-taxing your system.

 

 

Do a brain dump

A brain dump is simply the act of dumping all the contents of your mind onto paper as one might dump the contents of a purse onto a table.

You are spilling out stressors, your nagging thoughts, your pesky annoyances. Simply open up a valve in your mind and let all those thoughts flow out of your hand and onto some paper.

Write until you feel like the pressure inside of you is lessened and you can take a deep breath. Then you will have achieved a brain dump.

 

 

Think positive

Employ the power of positive thinking. Rather than incessantly worrying about the same things over and over, break the cycle and train your brain to think in a way that is positive and uplifting.

One way to do this is to envision the results that you want, rather than thinking about the results that you’re afraid of.

Imagine everything working out. Sometimes, just the very thought of things unfolding in your favour can be truly inspiring.

Another approach is to practice positive affirmations.

 

 

Flow activities

When you’re stressed, sometimes the best strategy can be distraction – especially when it’s with a simple task that makes you feel in control and has a series of steps to follow.

Psychologists call these ‘flow’ activities, switching off the conscious brain and putting you into a calming, meditative state.

Think baking, cleaning or organising, all processes which give you a clear, easily achievable goal and give you a massive satisfaction boost when complete.

 

 

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I hope you were able to take some of these tips and tricks and add them into your stress management tool box to use when you need them.

Stress can be such a nuisance and is really unnecessary. Let’s stick together and find a way to live a more relaxed, productive, and happy life!

What are your tips for stress relief? I would love to hear them.

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5 4 3 2 1 Grounding Exercise – Simple Guide!

Stress and anxiety have skyrocketed in recent years — in kids and adults.

It’s crucial we discover strategies to cope, to become more resilient, and manage these uncomfortable feelings.

This five-step 54321 grounding exercise is favourited by many therapists and will help you (and your kids) during periods of stress, anxiety, or even when you just need a little break.

Below, we will walk you through specific instructions to complete this simple but extremely effective 54321 grounding exercise.

Disclaimer: I am not in any way a certified therapist so all the advice is given from my own experience and should not be taken as medical advice. 

 

 

What is grounding?

Grounding as a coping skill has been around for some time. The purpose of grounding is to divert focus from something distressing to something more pleasant.

By shifting focus to something in the environment, we can better control what we experience. To do so, we concentrate on using the information our five senses provide.

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For example, if I were anxious over something, and could not stop thinking about it, I would look around and focus on something I see, to begin distracting myself from my anxiety.

After performing a grounding exercise, you will be able to shift your focus away from your anxiety by becoming more aware of what is around you.

Grounding is a series of exercises designed to use all your senses. For each sense, you note what your senses are telling you. To begin, we will focus on sight.

 

5 4 3 2 1 Grounding Exercise

Before you begin the 54321 grounding exercise, you need to take deep, slow, and long breaths as your first priority. This will achieve a calm state of mind before proceeding to the following steps:

 

5. SEE

Acknowledge five things that you can see around you.

Options can range from a pen or stapler at your office, to a bird or tree while you’re out at the local park.

If you’re at home, you can look at a family photo on the wall or a glass of water on the kitchen counter. You can pick between big and small items to keep your options open.

 

4. TOUCH

Acknowledge four things that you can touch around you. You can start with your hair, hands, elbows, and other parts of your body if you’re short on time.

The ground beneath your feet, whether it’s the floor of your bedroom or the office at work, also helps. Pillows, desks, phones, and keyboards can fit this step.

 

3. HEAR

Acknowledge three things you can hear around you. Instead of listening to your own thoughts or sounds from your body like your stomach growling, focus on external noises.

Examples include someone driving a car nearby, a clock ticking, or a dog barking. If you’re at work, you can listen to typing and the steps of people walking by your desk.

 

2. SMELL

Acknowledge two things around you that you can smell.

This step may be a challenge compared to the others, so it’s best to go to a place with more sources of scent if you don’t smell anything wherever you are at the moment.

The outdoors has plenty of options for smells, and the soap in bathrooms also helps. Your furniture can provide pleasant smells for this step when you’re home.

 

1. TASTE

Acknowledge one thing around you that you can taste. It doesn’t necessarily have to be food, as toothpaste and minty floss you use in the morning or at night are easy sources.

You can also go with the oatmeal you have for breakfast, the sandwich and crisps you have for lunch, or the pasta you have for dinner.

Coffee, tea, and other drinks you have to get through the day also work.

End this exercise with a long, deep breath.

 

5 4 3 2 1 Grounding Exercise – Final thought

With these steps, you will be able to get the most out of the moment.

Focusing on your senses will help you be more mindful, which will then help you accomplish your tasks and experience success.

As a result, you can defeat your anxiety and feel in control of your life. Put this technique into practice to so that you can improve your health and make those big days fun!

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Daily affirmations for self esteem

Today I will talking through daily affirmations for self-esteem and how they can have a positive impact on your mindset.

Self-esteem is how much you appreciated yourself. How much value you put in yourself? In other words, self-esteem is feeling good about yourself.

Using positive self-esteem affirmations can aid you in increasing your positive view of yourself.

Sometimes we are going through hard situations in our lives and need a little booster to feel better and affirmations could be what makes the difference in our day.

Affirmations for self-esteem can help you feel better and help you start developing more self-love.

Practicing affirmations could be an easy and quick way of raising your energy and your spirits in the mornings, or can used throughout the day if you need a pick me up mentally.

Affirmations are definitely a good to start your day!

I start my day with morning affirmations and have created a routine. Affirmations are short phrases you can use every day.

Just repeat them and believe in them as you are saying them.

 

 

What’s an affirmation?

A positive affirmation is a statement used to challenge a negative and unhelpful thought.

By repeating a positive affirmation, you begin to challenge your unhelpful subconscious thinking patterns and replace them with more realistic and helpful ones.

They can be used to boost your self-esteem, help you achieve your goals, or help you push through fear.

Affirmations have been incredibly useful to me. They’ve helped me, time and time again, to break out of negative thinking patterns and to build healthier ones.

In the past, I’ve used them to boost my confidence, push through fear, build boundaries in life, and to find greater joy in life.

Today though, I’m looking for some to boost my self-esteem. If you’ve been going through something similar, I hope these affirmations will remind and empower you to be your authentically incredible selves!

Choose one affirmation that speaks most to you (or write your own version!) and repeat it to yourself each morning.

Let’s boost your self-esteem!

 

How to practice affirmations for self-esteem?

These are lots of ways to use affirmations and people use them differently. Some people speak them into a mirror on a morning, others run them through their minds when negative thoughts begin to plague them.

I have a different method of doing my daily affirmations that may work for you if you like to journal. Every day, I choose one affirmation that resonates with me and write it in my journal.

I find that repeating the affirmation throughout the day to myself gradually helps change my thought process over time.

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Affirmations are not a quick fix for mental health problems. Like any thought changing behaviour, they take time, patience and a lot of practice.

Our negative self-talk builds up over time and it can take some time to alter these thought patterns. I promise that you are more special than you believe.

You can get started with this list of 100 affirmations for self-esteem below. I hope they help to inspire and motivate you towards a healthier mindset.

Related post:

Want more affirmations? See our post below for daily positive affirmations:

 

 

Daily affirmations for self esteem

  1. I love my body and all it does for me
  2. I am enough
  3. I am worthy of love
  4. I respect my own boundaries
  5. Today, I choose me
  6. I love the woman/man that I am
  7. I am loved
  8. I am deserving of love
  9. I am kind to myself
  10. Love flows from within me
  11. I am beautiful, inside and out
  12. I embrace my unique individuality
  13. I deserve happiness
  14. I let go of negative self-talk
  15. I am whole
  16. Everything I need is within me
  17. I am in control of my happiness
  18. I am capable of reaching my goals
  19. I accept myself unconditionally
  20. I do not let my fears hold me back
  21. I am grateful for all that I have
  22. I make time to care for myself
  23. I love and accept all of me
  24. Loving myself comes easily and naturally
  25. I am strong and resilient
  26. I am successful
  27. My capacity for love is infinite
  28. I let go of those who do not have my best interests at heart
  29. I let go of my past and live in the present
  30. I am growing each and every day
  31. I forgive myself and learn from my mistakes
  32. I am a work of art
  33. I am valued
  34. I allow myself to feel deeply
  35. I am open to receive love
  36. I love the body I was born with
  37. I can achieve anything I set my mind to
  38. I overcome challenges with grace and ease
  39. I have a warm and caring heart
  40. I am exactly who I need to be in this moment
  41. I send love to my fears and doubts
  42. I deflect negativity
  43. I believe in myself
  44. I can say no when something does not serve me
  45. I let go of that which no longer serves me
  46. I accept compliments easily
  47. I release any need for suffering
  48. I have a lot to offer the world
  49. I love every part of what makes me who I am
  50. I am blanketed in the Universes’ loving energy
  51. My life is filled with love and joy
  52. I have always and will always try my best
  53. I have achieved great things
  54. I respect myself
  55. My life is a place of balance and harmony
  56. I have the power to change my world
  57. I choose to stop apologizing for being me
  58. I am not my mistakes or my flaws
  59. Others accept and love me for who I am
  60. I prioritize myself and my needs
  61. I radiate confidence
  62. My mind is filled with loving thoughts
  63. I attract positive and loving people into my life
  64. The more I practice loving myself, the more lovable I become
  65. I let love in
  66. I let my love for myself increase each day
  67. Love flows freely from inside of me
  68. I practice self-compassion when I do not succeed
  69. I honour my own life path
  70. I honour and respect my limitations
  71. I have so much to love about myself
  72. My life is a reflection of the love inside me
  73. The only approval I need is my own
  74. I radiate love
  75. I love my own company
  76. I do not need anyone to feel worthy
  77. I attract love and light
  78. I release the need to judge myself negatively
  79. Today I start loving myself more
  80. I am capable of loving fully and completely
  81. I treat my body with love and care
  82. I am powerful and confident
  83. I trust in my ability to make it through difficult times
  84. I trust my intuition
  85. My life is full of endless opportunities for success and happiness
  86. My inner world creates my outer world
  87. I reward myself for my hard work and dedication
  88. I am balanced
  89. The universe supports me, always
  90. I have a loving relationship with my body
  91. I can choose self-love whenever I desire
  92. Loving myself means I am able to love others more
  93. I have a positive and healing effect on others
  94. I have so much to celebrate in life
  95. I am proud of myself
  96. I choose to view my life positively
  97. My body is my best friend
  98. I choose to nourish my health
  99. I am the healer of my own life
  100. I am love

 

 

Daily affirmations for self-esteem – final thought

You now have an idea of everything about positive affirmations. It’s now your turn to pick the affirmation that are relevant to you and say them to yourself on a daily basis.

Affirmations are not something that you simply say once off and expect to see massive improvements.

The secret is repetition (do it regularly) and feel each word as you say them, experience what you’re saying.

Wait and see how affirmations will change and improve your life for the better.

Which of these affirmations for self-esteem resonates the most with you today?

Comment below, feel free to ask me questions. I am more than happy to answer anytime.

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List of Daily Positive Affirmations

Today I will be sharing with you a list of daily positive affirmations.

Ok, so first off, what are affirmations? Affirmations are short, quick phrases that have a positive impact on your mind and body. They are statements that you repeat to yourself. They are usually meant to target a specific aspect of your life that may need some lifting up.

Affirmations are part and parcel of positive thinking and empowerment and will enable you to think more positively.

If done right, self-affirmation can be an effective tool for quickly becoming the person you need to be in order to achieve everything you want in your life.

Depression and anxiety alter how we view ourselves and the world. You’ve heard of the phrase rose-tinted glasses, right? Well, depression causes the opposite and encourages a negative mindset.

For example, if you’re watching the news, your mind will focus on the negative media and completely overlook any positive news. Negativity becomes your comfort blanket, your reassurance however, it’s not healthy.

Overtime, affirmations will help you change the negative thought patterns that your mind naturally turns to. This will build a positive mindset and change your outlook on the world and ultimately, yourself.

 

 

How to use affirmations?

These are lots of ways to use affirmations and people use them differently. Some people speak them into a mirror on a morning, others run them through their minds when negative thoughts begin to plague them.

I have a different method of doing my daily affirmations that may work for you if you like to journal. Every day, I choose one affirmation that resonates with me and write it in my journal.

I find that repeating the affirmation throughout the day to myself gradually helps change my thought process over time.

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Affirmations are not a quick fix for mental health problems. Like any thought changing behaviour, they take time, patience and a lot of practice.

Our negative self-talk builds up over time and it can take some time to alter these thought patterns. I promise that you are more special than you believe.

You can get started with this list of 115 affirmations below. I hope they help to inspire and motivate you towards a positive mindset.

Related post:

Want more affirmations? See our post below for daily affirmations for self-esteem:

 

 

List of daily positive affirmations

  1. I love being me
  2. I get better every day
  3. I am unique
  4. I am special
  5. I am whole
  6. I am awesome
  7. I make a positive difference in the world
  8. I believe in myself
  9. I do my best every day
  10. I am smart
  11. I am always willing to learn
  12. I am fun
  13. I trust myself
  14. I can do it
  15. I can do anything I put my mind to
  16. I can be anything I want to be
  17. I am loved
  18. I am worthy of love
  19. I am blessed
  20. I am limitless
  21. I focus on positivity
  22. I am thankful
  23. I am safe
  24. I am helpful
  25. I am truthful
  26. I am forgiving
  27. I am kind
  28. I am peaceful
  29. I am thankful
  30. I am talented
  31. I am confident
  32. I am strong
  33. I get stronger everyday
  34. I am brave
  35. I am disciplined
  36. I am respectful
  37. I am responsible
  38. I am polite
  39. I am beautiful
  40. I will face my fears
  41. I will overcome my fears
  42. I am persistent
  43. I am determined
  44. I am patient
  45. I am enough
  46. I am capable
  47. I am a leader
  48. I am a good influence on others
  49. I spread joy
  50. I am generous
  51. I am optimistic
  52. I am supportive
  53. I am compassionate
  54. I am a good listener
  55. I am a good sport
  56. I am happy for other’s success
  57. I love to share with others
  58. I give freely
  59. I am proud of myself
  60. I am capable of great things
  61. I am important
  62. I trust my intuition
  63. I choose to start today with a smile
  64. I choose to have a happy day
  65. I reach for the stars
  66. I can do hard things
  67. I am going to train my brain to do it
  68. I am open to new experiences and new things
  69. I love to learn new things
  70. I embrace and accept change. Change is good and helps me to grow
  71. I like to challenge myself
  72. I find ways and love to overcome challenges
  73. I like to work hard
  74. I don’t give up
  75. I can get through anything
  76. I am creative
  77. I have great ideas
  78. I reach for the stars
  79. I deserve to be happy
  80. I have happy thoughts
  81. It’s okay to make mistakes.
  82. I learn from my mistakes. Mistakes are a chance to grow
  83. I forgive myself for my mistakes
  84. I stand for my beliefs
  85. My opinion is important
  86. I have the power to make my dreams come true
  87. I believe in my dreams
  88. I choose my attitude
  89. I choose my reaction
  90. I am in charge of my emotions
  91. I am in charge of my decisions
  92. I am responsible for my decisions
  93. I am responsible for my actions
  94. I can handle any obstacle
  95. I am a problem solver
  96. Problems help me learn and grow
  97. When I need help, I will ask for it
  98. Having quiet, alone time is good for me
  99. I am gentle with myself
  100. I am gentle with others
  101. I can live in the moment
  102. I will make sure it’s my best work
  103. My best is enough
  104. I’ve got this
  105. I get stronger, it doesn’t get easier.
  106. Struggling makes me stronger
  107. When I struggle, I always learn something new
  108. I keep my body healthy
  109. I enjoy healthy food
  110. I love to exercise
  111. I create my own path
  112. I enjoy spending time with myself
  113. I see the beauty in every situation and everything
  114. I will be successful
  115. I can do it and I will do it

 

 

List of daily positive affirmations – final thought

You now have an idea of everything about positive affirmations. It’s now your turn to pick the affirmation that are relevant to you and say them to yourself on a daily basis.

Positive affirmations are not something that you simply say once off and expect to see massive improvements.

The secret is repetition (do it regularly) and feel each word as you say them, experience what you’re saying.

Wait and see how affirmations will change and improve your life for the better.

Be happy and enjoy creating positive affirmations!

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How To Live In The Present Moment! – Simple Guide!

Fair too often we are caught up in the busy schedule of life and wonder where did the day go?, or hasn’t that week flown by, or the summer will be soon over. This happens because you’re so busy in life just doing that you forget how to be.

At some point or the other, all of us have inevitably found ourselves wanting to just leave it all and go far away from all the rush, from all the noise and just be in peace with our own self.

There is too much rushing, too much achieving in this overly fast paced world. If you find yourself in such a position then it is actually reminding you that you need to slow things down and go slow with life. Step outside the rush.

Learning how to slow down in life is a challenge by itself, especially for those who seem to work non-stop, or those who feel guilty for taking a break as they think I could be doing this, or doing that.

But living in the fast lane comes at a price, that price is you’re missing out on your life. The time you spending planning, working, doing, rushing and all the other things that lead to hectic life, takes away living in the moment and experiencing what it truly feels like to be alive.

This is so profound, yet what is it to be alive?  Although I cannot concretely answer that question for you, through my personal experience I have found that people feel the most alive when they are truly experiencing the present moment.  Those times when you are able to slow down and pay attention.

 

 

How to live in the present moment

Is your mindset keeping you from living life in the present moment?

Your mindset may hold certain beliefs that keep you stuck in the fast lane. These could come from personal experience, habits, things you’ve learned growing up or the pressure of society.

Take a step back and a moment to reflect on your mindset and your beliefs on why you shouldn’t be slowing down from a fast-paced life.

What do these beliefs mean to you?

Here are some examples of beliefs you may have about slowing down:

  • If I take a break or slow down, I’m lazy
  • Things won’t get done.
  • I could be doing something else in the time I’m taking a break
  • I need to be doing more to be more successful than Joe Bloggs next door, and the only way I can do that is by working harder- even if it stresses me out.

The ironic thing is that you will actually be more productive and efficient if you take breaks and pay attention to what you are doing in the moment. This is because living in the present moment increases your focus.

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When you work yourself into the ground without no break, and constantly move from task to task, you are not fully living in the present moment and therefore are not fully engaged. As a result, you are living your life in auto-pilot mode.

This can result in two things happening:

  • You are not fully focused; therefore, you’re not putting the best work into things. This is because you are just thinking about moving onto the next task.
  • You are burning yourself out by never taking breaks or slowing down.

 

How can you live in the present moment?

While you’re rushing about from task to task, somebody else is living in the present moment and time is moving much slower for them. It is the same number of seconds ticking by, the same minutes and hours pass by, but it is your perception of those moments that is different.

Your perception is your reality, therefore if you find that you seem to be rushing through life then the answer lies in changing your perception.  Some of that may originate in identifying and changing your anxious thoughts.

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Additionally, you can practice Mindfulness by being aware of your senses (touch, sight, hearing, taste, and smell) in the present moment.  This is one of the most effective ways to truly bring you into experiencing this moment fully.

Try it now and pay attention to what is around you.  Notice how you feel.

 

 

Tips to help you slow down in life:

Practice Mindfulness

Mindfulness meditation or practicing mindful awareness regularly can make it easier to slow down life.  By observing your thoughts non-judgmentally, you can increase your awareness when you are rushing around for no particular reason.  This can help you to approach your life and certain situations with presence and focus, instead of just rushing through them to get to the next thing.

 

Minimise Distractions

Distractions such as a smartphone or television can make it harder for you to focus on the present moment and take you down a black hole in your mind without you even realising it.  Leave your phone in your car or put it on “do not disturb” to prevent distractions so you can be fully present and appreciate the things and people in front of you.

 

Give Yourself Reminders

Little reminders can be helpful so that you remember to slow down and pay attention.  Whether it is a phone wallpaper, a sign on your desk, or a decal on your mirror… visual reminders to slow down can get you out of your head and into the present.

 

Go for a walk and look around at nature

Head out for a walk and make yourself take notice at everything around you – the sounds; trees; flowers; etc.  Connect again with the world around you and allow yourself to walk gently – not racing around.

 

Take Breaks

Taking breaks at home, work, or school can help you stop anxious thinking or stop feeling stressed.  Taking a break can help you to refocus and reflect.

Some helpful things to do on a break are taking a walk, taking deep breaths, or eating mindfully.  These are examples of breaks that bring you fully into your present moment experience, and out of the stress of overthinking and rushing.

 

Enjoy the little things

Getting to enjoy life more is one of the perks of living a slow life.

First, you need to learn to notice what is happening around you. Notice the breeze, the flowers, the clouds. Notice the smell of things.

 

 

How to live in the present moment – Final thought

If you can cultivate present moment awareness, then you can learn how to slow down and appreciate life.  Appreciation comes from actually paying attention to yourself, your body, your environment, and the people around you- not rushing from one thing to the next.

So, the next time you find yourself caught in a frenzy of stress, overwhelm, and frustration, ask yourself:

How can I choose to slow down and live in the present moment today?

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Gratitude Journaling Prompts – 50 Prompts!

Journaling is quickly becoming more popular, with hordes of people starting their day by opening the pages of their notebook and writing.

Writing has long been recommended by counsellors and psychologists as a way to work through our emotions, and many find that it’s a great way to reduce stress, improve decision making, and get to know themselves better.

I personally find that getting my feelings and worries out on the page stops me from going over them so much in my mind.

Free writing can sometimes feel daunting though, so one of my favourite ways to journal is to use prompts.

These are questions that can be used to gain a better understanding of ourselves and take note of things that might need addressing.

Gratitude has become a positive psychology intervention that is used in several settings. Research in this field has found that the practice of being thankful in life is strongly associated with well-being and happiness.

Gratitude facilitates meaning- finding in our ordinary life events which is fuel for psychological resilience.

The practice of gratitude has been found to increase positive emotions, altruistic behaviour, and reduce physical complaints, stress, depression, and worry.

Indeed research has found that gratitude is linked to all levels of well-being and has become a popular intervention that fosters positive functioning and psychological strengths.

 

 

Why is gratitude so hard to practice?

Let’s face it, it’s easier to focus on what we don’t have, our imperfections, and our problems than it is to be grateful for what we have.

Between the violence, natural disasters, and divisive political climate, it’s been a rough year for many of us.

We’re inundated with negatives nearly 24/7 from the news, social media, and even in-person conversations.

So, we have to work extra hard to find the good in ourselves and the world around us.

 

How to journal

If you are new to the journal writing process, don’t panic.

It’s pretty simple. All you need is a journal (or notepad) and a pen.

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So now you have your amazing journal, find a quiet space, grab a cup of coffee (…or wine) and take some time to yourself.

I love using journal prompts because sometimes when I sit down to write I just stare at the blank page not knowing what to write about.

Only when I actually dig deeper and ask myself some tough questions do I discover how many thoughts, feelings and views I have!

 

Why you should use gratitude prompts

You might look down at your gratitude journal to see that you were thankful for coffee five days in a row.

Now, you may be grateful for that brown liquid gold, but you need to take the time to think more deeply and appreciate more deeply.

That’s why these gratitude journal prompts are so helpful. Answer a question every day and you’ll focus on a different aspect of your life regularly.

Some blessings you may have never considered before.

Often, we need a little nudge to do things well. In this case, use that gentle push to greatly improve your thoughts and your life.

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What to do if you don’t know what to write about?

If you’re struggling to find something to thankful for, start small. There are always things to be grateful for, even on our darkest days, but we have to look harder for them.

Like digging for buried treasure, it takes effort, but the reward is great.

Try to identify one good thing – a supportive person, a comfy sweater, hot water, or even that you’re able to read this article.

Try to stay open-minded. Your first response might still be to minimize the positives and focus on the negatives, but by practicing gratitude we can actually train ourselves to spot the positives.

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This means that with practice, it will become easier to identify things you’re grateful for and you’ll develop an open and joyful heart, as well as a greater appreciation for yourself and the world around you.

Gratitude doesn’t make our problems disappear, but it helps them feel more manageable.

But, if you just simply can’t think of anything, I’ve got your back.

Check out these gratitude journal prompts that will help you achieve clarity and help your mental health.

 

Gratitude journaling prompts

So, what do you write on your journal?

  • If you’re not sure what put down or are out of ideas for the moment, here’s a huge list of journal prompts you can try.
  • See which ones apply most to your life and start with those. From there, you can slowly go through the list and complete them all.
  • Name a person you are thankful for that shaped who you are today.
  • What is something from each of your senses you are grateful for today? (Sight, smell, taste, touch, sound)
  • What challenge did you overcome that you now see the benefit in?
  • What book are you grateful for and why? What are the teachings?
  • What are you grateful for about your town? Your time period? Your country?
  • What are you most grateful for in your morning or night routine?
  • Name three everyday objects that you are grateful for.
  • What music are you most grateful for?
  • Name three unique things you are grateful for so far this year.
  • Name three people you are grateful for outside of your immediate family. Why?
  • What brings you gratitude with the passing of time? Something you notice more than you used to.
  • What do you love most about each season of the year?
  • What discovery have you made in the last year that you are thankful for?
  • What food did you eat today? Take a moment to share gratitude for the food and water that sustains you and imagine where it came from.
  • Do you have shelter? A warm place to sleep? Food on your table? Spend a few minutes being grateful for the necessities in life.
  • What have you learned this year that has benefited you?
  • What person are you most grateful for and why?
  • What is something hard or mundane that you do, and you’re grateful it makes you stronger?
  • What is something in your home that brings you great joy?
  • What positive memory happened in the last week that you are thankful for?
  • What did you do today that made you happy?
  • What aspect of nature did you appreciate in the last week?
  • Who is a friend you’re grateful for and why?
  • List three people that have made your life better. (Bonus: thank them today!)
  • Write one moment or memory in your life that you will cherish forever.
  • What do you love most about life?
  • What was a wonderful thing that happened today?
  • What is something you take for granted?
  • What do you love about yourself?
  • What tradition are you grateful for?
  • Tell of a place that you cherish.
  • What is your favourite time of day and why do you love it?
  • Tell of a way someone helped you recently.
  • What is something amazing that happened to you in the last week, month, or year?
  • Name one thing you are grateful for regarding each person in your family.
  • What is your favourite gratitude quote? What does it make you think of?
  • Name one luxury you enjoy on a daily or weekly basis.
  • What do you love about your job?
  • What is your favourite place in your home? Why?
  • Describe your favourite vacation/holiday.
  • Describe the last time you helped someone. How did it feel?
  • What’s a guilty pleasure you are thankful for?
  • Name an accomplishment you are proud of.
  • Write down the best gift you’ve ever received.
  • Describe something beautiful that is outside of your window.
  • What do you love most about your family?
  • What do you love most about your friends?
  • What activities in your day are your thankful for?
  • Name one thing that made you smile or laugh today.
  • What is something beautiful you saw today?

 

 

Conclusion

Gratitude is a very powerful tool in helping you become a more positive person.

By writing them down on a journal, you’re able to keep track of all the good things that have happened in your life.

This makes is doubly powerful allowing you to go back and remember specific situations.

In case you’re not sure what to write about or are out of ideas, the list above contains tons of journal prompts to help you.

What do you write in your journal, I would love to hear your ideas?

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Ways to Practice Gratitude – Simple Guide!

The benefits of having a daily gratitude practice are nearly endless. This is a simple practice but the challenge is taking the time to integrate it into your daily life.

It can take 21 days to form a habit and then it will become more second nature. Committing to taking time each day to notice and reflect on the things that have gone well during the day, that you are thankful for increases your health and well-being.

The practice of gratitude has been studied in the field of positive psychology the study of what makes life worth living.

Gratitude has become a positive psychology intervention that is used in several settings. Research in this field has found that the practice of being thankful in life is strongly associated with well-being and happiness.

Gratitude facilitates “meaning- finding” in our ordinary life events which is fuel for psychological resilience.

The practice of gratitude has been found to increase positive emotions, altruistic behaviour, and reduce physical complaints, stress, depression, and worry.

Indeed research has found that gratitude is linked to all levels of well-being and has become a popular intervention that fosters positive functioning and psychological strengths.

 

 

Ways to practice gratitude

Taking time to appreciate the good things in the world can easily be built into your daily life. Here are some simple steps to help you cultivate a daily gratitude practice:

 

1. Commit

We always seem to resist what is good for us. You may not always feel motivated to complete this practice but do it anyway. Don’t let excuses get in your way. It will still have benefits even if you have to force yourself some days. Commit to doing this daily and it will soon become a habit like brushing your teeth.

 

2. Begin

It may be helpful to pick a time each day that you will complete your gratitude practice. It may be first thing in the morning, during your lunch break, or in the evening.

Once you have a schedule made for yourself take out a journal either in paper format or you can use your computer and begin.

You can start with, “I am grateful for…”

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This can be difficult in the beginning to connect to the things you are grateful especially if your life is not what you would like it to look like.

There are always things in our life that are going well. It may be just that you are breathing, that you showered, maybe a smile on a stranger’s face, etc.

Try to find new things each day you can be grateful for rather than just repeating the same things each day.

Tap into your creativity. Again, this may feel odd when you first start. You have just planted a seed and with nurturing this practice it will blossom.

 

3. Feel it

Allow yourself to feel grateful not just in your mind but in your body. Feel the warmth of appreciation, love, and connection.

Allow it to seep into your pores as you embody it. Place a hand on your heart as you feel your body being lifted as it radiates through you.

You may not always be able to feel gratitude in an embodied way but when you do savour it. Allow it to fill your heart and use its energy as fuel in your life.

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4. Continue even after you start to see results

Too often people take a break from the practice once they start to see results. When one does this the results also begin to diminish.

Commit to making this a lifelong practice. You may miss a day here and there as you are only human but just continue to come back consciously noticing and reflecting on what is going well in your life and what you are thankful for.

 

Be creative with your practice

Finding new and creative ways to integrate gratitude into your everyday life can keep things fun. The field of positive psychology has outlined many different gratitude practices that you can find here.

It is important that you make this practice your own and so it has personal meaning for you.

We should not do things because we believe we should when it does not resonate with this. There are indeed several things you can do to improve your health and happiness, but it is up to you to put your signature on it, make it meaningful to you and you will reap even more rewards.

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Incorporate gratitude into your mediation

Gratitude meditation is simply the practice of reflecting on the things in our lives we’re grateful for. It’s about experiencing that feeling of appreciation, whether for a loving family member or friend, a beautiful sunny day, or the pleasure of a good cup of coffee.

It can be for things large or small- perhaps a successful recovery from an injury or illness, or a tough life lesson you weathered, where you came out the other side stronger and more confident.

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It’s easy to get caught up in current events and the negativity of the news cycle, but in fact those things often have little to do with who we are and how we experience the world on a day-to-day basis. A grateful meditation is not about becoming desensitised to suffering or social injustice, it’s a way of bringing us back to a place of personal reflection.

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The below channels on YouTube are great for guided meditations;

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Share your gratitude practice

Our relationships can be the source of our greatest happiness. Incorporating people into your practice can help boost your experience.

You can partner with someone which will help keep you accountable and motivate you on the days you may struggle with the practice.

It may also help to see what other people have written as part of their practice making it easier to also notice those things in your life.

Sharing the things, we are grateful for with our family and friends can have several additional benefits. This can be a practice that is also built into family routines such as before dinner or at breakfast.

Another way to boost the influence of gratitude is a gratitude letter. This involves writing a letter to someone who had a positive impact on your life that you have never thanked properly.

You can send this letter to them or visit them and read it to them. Too often we fail to thank the people who have added value to our lives.

Taking the time to formally express this to them expands the reaches of your gratitude practice. Bringing more care and love into this world is a very powerful thing, do not think this is trivial, it is grand.

 

Benefits of a gratitude practice

There are so many different benefits you can accumulate from this practice. It has been proven to have a positive impact on your psychological and physical health.

People report fewer pains and aches and report greater health with more exercise and doctor check-ups than those who do not practice. It also has been shown to improve your quality of sleep.

It can help you improve your self-esteem and helps you make better friendships. Research shows that thanking an acquittance makes them more likely to seek a lasting relationship with you.

It also enhances your empathy and reduces aggression. Gratitude lessens your likelihood of holding grudges again others but instead offers more room for forgiveness and understanding.

Grateful people also increase their mental strength which can help boost their resiliency and ability to bounce back after highly distressing situations.

 

 

Ways to practice gratitude – Final thought

Let’s be real for a second. It’s impossible to be grateful all the time. Sometimes we experience seasons in our life when gratitude is a struggle.

People who practice gratitude will still experience sadness or other negative emotions. This is all normal and you should never feel guilty for not being grateful all the time.

Let’s start today’s gratitude practice, what are YOU grateful for today?

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How to Stay Positive During the Lockdown – Simple Guide!

Today I discussing how to stay positive during the lockdown.

As COVID-19 spreads steadily around the world, many of us are finding ourselves spending all of our time at home due to government restrictions.

I have taken advantage of this extra time to focus on how I can be more motivated, organised and practice self-care

This is a difficult and stressful time for us all. Anxiety levels are high and the pressure of having the whole family at home 24/7 can be a lot to handle.

Working from home whilst home schooling is tough, but if your home is a mess and you have no routine this can have an even greater impact on your anxiety levels and mental health.

At a time like this it is vital to for our homes to be a place of comfort and calm. So, if you feel like you need some help then there has never been a better time to get organised.

Let’s get our homes in order, create a daily routine and give us something to focus on.

Today I will be sharing 13 tips to stay positive during a lockdown.

Disclaimer: I am not in any way a certified therapist so all the advice is given from my own experience and should not be taken as medical advice. 

 

 

How to stay positive during the lockdown

Mental & physical health

First of all, I would like to talk about the importance of continuing to take care of your mental and physical health.

The lockdown is frustrating but this could also be an opportunity to develop yourself or an idea you have been putting on the back-burner.

This is a good time to read a book, take an online course and start a new home workout regimen.

There are plenty Platforms online that have lots of courses that you can explore for new careers and hobbies.

Fitness professionals are also developing home online exercises that you can follow along at home with your family.

Physical activity of around 30 minutes daily will help keep you healthy, this could be going outside for walks, run, a ride while keeping a safe distance from others. You can also dance to music, walk up and down the stairs.

If you are working from home, make sure you do not sit in the same position for long periods. Get up and take three minutes breaks every 30 minutes.

 

Practice Mindfulness

When you put Mindfulness into practice your mind will declutter massively!

I can’t explain how much this practice has changed my life. When you’re mindful your life will transform.

By living in the present moment, you become at peace with your past thoughts and illusions made up in your mind.

Observe your thoughts, become at peace with them, take away the emotional attachment.

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When you find your mind wandering, revert back to the present moment.

The more you live in the present moment, the mind quickly loses control over you. The mind is a tool that should be working for you, not controlling you.

This takes a lot of practice, as your mind has spent so many years in control. The mind has been projecting its illusions on you all your life.

Purchase a book, research it on YouTube. The Mindfulness practice is life changing when used consistently and persistently!

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Some great channels that I use for mindfulness videos, are the following:

I also recommend the following books to read:

 

 

Practice self-care

Last but not least, take some time to look after yourself. The best thing to come out of this experience is the opportunity to slow down and catch your breath.

The first few months of the year tend to be a sprint and we can begin to lose sight of our needs, because we are chasing moving goal posts.

Take time to cook for yourself, to do your chores properly, to spend time with your family doing meaningful things together and also just relaxing.

You now have time to sleep in during what was supposed to be that 1-hour commute, you also have time to read a few pages a day and time to do homework with the kids.

Self-care involves nurturing your relationships as well as looking after your environment. It’s not just bubble baths and fresh bedding – though it is equally important- it’s about finding that much needed balance and tranquillity.

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Set out a daily routine

This one won’t be for everyone, but for a lot of people it is essential when trying to protect your mental well-being.

Setting out a routine every day can ensure you keep being productive whilst staying indoors on lockdown.

It also gives you a reason to wake up every morning and keeps some normality and stability in your life, as being organised with a routine can often help people feel more in control of their situation.

Having a daily routine also ensures you don’t spend all day in bed doing nothing, which is the worst thing you can do for your mental health and well-being at a crucial time like this.

Even if you don’t do any super productive things, even reading a book or putting a load of washing on is much better than nothing!

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Meditation

I thought this was complete nonsense a few years ago, now I love it.

The one thing that calmed my mind beyond belief, if done properly, is meditation.

This helps you become at peace with your thoughts, and also mindful meditation helps you stay in the present moment.

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Try to meditate before breakfast, if not, then late afternoon/early evening is a good time to do it.

Meditation will seem like a chore at first, but the more you practice, it will become more of an enjoyable experience that you will look forward to.

There are tonnes of videos on YouTube to help you get started.

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The below channels on YouTube are great for guided meditations;

If you want to learn about meditation, the follow channel is excellent:

If you’re interested in learning more in-depth about meditation, then the below books are excellent:

 

 

Make a daily to-do list

Knowing your goals is great, it means you know where you want to get to. But that is not enough without knowing what you need to do to get there.

Ultimately, every goal needs to be broken apart as much as possible and written down as a simple list of to-dos.

Having this little list of what you need to get done every day enables you to organise your time and how to tackle things. It helps keep you motivated.

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Every morning, try to write down your top 3 priorities for the day, and only after that all the other smaller things you’d like to get done during the day (IF you have the time).

This will help you stay focused on the things that matter and, in the same time, it will raise your energy levels and get you in that ready-for-action mood.

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Practice gratitude

Gratitude helps you gain much needed perspective in times when you feel down. It helps you realise that life is not so bad and that there are still some very good things happening for you.

Most therapists recommend writing down a list of things you are grateful each day, you can do this in the morning or in the evening.

The list doesn’t have to be long it’s ok to write even 3 simple things that you are grateful for.

If you don’t know where to start, here are three things to start you off: I am grateful for the sunshine today. I am grateful for the meal I ate with my family and I am grateful for the wifi not playing up today!

You can be grateful for anything and everything and you are sure to feel a bit lighter, a bit happier once you have done this exercise.

 

Facetime or call family & friends

One of the most essential things to do in order to protect your mental well-being is to set times throughout the day to facetime or ring your family & friends.

This is a great way to ensure you are still keeping in contact with other people, rather than being completely alone in the house with no-one to keep in contact with.

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It’s also nice to talk to people you love about something other than the pandemic, as it can take your mind off it and leave you feeling in better spirits.

I also find facetiming helps protect your mental well-being, as seeing another person’s face can bring you back down to earth and keep some normality in your life.

 

Journaling

Another activity that can really help you sort your thoughts and keep a positive mindset during quarantine is journaling.

To be honest I am not journaling regularly, even though it can have a very positive impact on yourself. When I am journaling, I am particularly writing down my feelings and emotions when I am not feeling very good.

It is a good way to get these pulling down thoughts that keep circling through your mind out of the way. Once you have written down your concerns you 100% feel lighter and there is more room for positivity.

What you are writing has not to be in a certain order, just write whatever comes to your mind.

I would recommend using an empty notebook that is just being used for journaling, so you have all of your old journals at one place.

If you keep doing this regularly or when you feel like you need it is up to you!

 

Get some fresh air

Fresh air can work wonders when you need a break or just want to recharge your batteries. Even a short walk outside or just sitting on a park bench can make you feel uplifted and energised.

Not only that, but vitamin D deficiency is a known cause for tiredness and fatigue, so you must ensure you get enough of it.

Depending on where you are in the world, you’re probably allowed to be outside at least for a short time for some daylight and/or exercise.

Make the most of it and don’t let any day pass by without being outdoors for a little bit, if you can help it. If not, at least open your windows wide and let the sunshine in.

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Remember lockdown is temporary

One of the biggest things I’ve been struggling with is not knowing how long this lockdown will last. It seems like it is going to last for quite a while but no one can say for sure.

The thing we all need to remember is that, however long it lasts, it won’t last forever. Take things one day at a time rather than looking for an end point.

Try to enjoy the time you have right now and soon enough we will be getting back to normal.

Everything will reopen (hopefully sooner rather than later) and everyone will go back to work. We will all be able to visit friends and family (and I expect there will be some great celebrations and social get togethers once this is all over!).

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Limit your media intake

Sure, we still need to take in the appropriate government guidance regarding what steps to take next but it’s seriously damaging to our mental health and mood to be absorbing unnecessary amounts of negative and low energy conversation.

There’s a lot of that being passed around and it’s a dangerous spiral to get caught up in.

Acknowledge that being completely absorbed in the media during this time will do you no good.

There are very few people that can spend hours and hours in front of negativity without feeling the impact.

If you’re feeling a little low in mood, limit your media intake to 30 minutes at the end of the day to get the updates and please, continue with your day.

 

Declutter

Now is the perfect time to get into every room of your home and have a good clear out.

There will be many items you can throw or recycle but you may need to put some bigger items aside to take to the tip once social distancing is over. For now, you can store these items away in a garage or shed.

Disposing of your physical clutter will help you deal with your mental clutter and anxieties.

 

 

How to stay positive during the lockdown – Final thought

So, that’s my tips on how to protect your mental well-being whilst being in lockdown or self-isolation during this hectic global pandemic.

Do you have any other tips? Please write them in the comments so other people can see them. Stay safe and keep smiling.

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Brain Dump Exercise – Declutter Your Mind!

Today I will be discussing what is a brain dump exercise and what benefits the practice can have.

I don’t know about you, but I used to often have so many thoughts running through my head at once, it would be overwhelming.

I would end up in a panicked mess, because I was going over in my head what I needed get done; and at same time getting myself in more of muddle in the process.

Where do I start and how do I fit it all in!

You may notice this more when you are trying to sleep or even when you are trying to concentrate on something.

How many times have you had someone talk to you and then you realise you have no idea what they just said to you?

Do you ever journal about your daily life? If so, good for you! Getting everything out of your head is a great self-care activity.

If you don’t journal, hey, that’s ok too! Journaling is a great way to improve mental health. So, with that in mind, have you ever heard of a brain dump? If not, you’re about to find out how to do one for mental health.

 

 

Brain Dump Exercise – Declutter Your Mind!

What is a brain dump?

A brain dump is a simple process of taking all of the thoughts running around in your head and recording them in one place.

You can use a brain dump for multiple purposes including studying for tests, learning a new skill or arrange your to-do list. The main objective is to organise your knowledge in one single spot for future reference.

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The most common way I use a brain dump is to plan my week and create to-do lists.

Writing down the tasks that constantly fill my thoughts has been an effective way to make sure I don’t forget anything important. Also, just the act of writing down my thoughts makes them less overwhelming and easier to manage.

When I write down my to-do list, all of a sudden it clears up space in my brain and immediately reduces stress. With my entire to-do list is on a single piece of paper, it begins to feel more manageable.

 

Signs you need to brain dump

There are many scenarios that call for “dumping” your thoughts on paper. Here are just a few questions to ask yourself:

  • Are you going through a stressful period?
  • Did you recently experience a major life change, like a move or new job?
  • Is there something going on in your personal life at the moment?
  • Does the thought of checking off your to do list overwhelm you?
  • Do you feel anxious, stressed or tired?
  • At the moment, are you having trouble making a decision?
  • Are you unsure of what you really want?
  • Has organisation been an issue in some way lately?

If you answered yes to any of these questions, a brain dump worksheet may help you gain clarity

 

 

Why does a brain dump work?

Brain dumping can accomplish two important things – first, getting your ideas onto paper simply helps calm your brain.

Get your ideas out of your head and they will stop keeping you up all night.

Second, putting your ideas down in words will help you evaluate them and determine whether they’re good enough to continue to explore, or if they should be filed away for later consideration.

When to do a brain dump?

The list may look a little bit different for everyone. But here are some major moments that I know I need a brain dump:

  • When you can’t focus on what you are working on;
  • When you are working long hours but not getting much done;
  • When you are about to start a new project;
  • When you are moving or traveling to somewhere else;
  • When you experience major changes in life, like a new relationship or a new job;
  • When you lose something or someone important;

These are all critical moments where you may have a lot of new tasks to tackle and decisions to make. Brain dump will help to calm your nerves down and to get you in a problem-solving mode.

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How to do a brain dump

The trick to a successful brain dump is to not think too much about what you’re doing.  Don’t try to write in your neatest handwriting, or stop and think about what makes the most sense.

Think of it as if you were playing that first word that pops into your head game and just run through everything as fast as you can.

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Your original list won’t be organised, or neat, or pretty.  It will most likely be chicken scratch, and a little bit of gibberish, but that’s okay.

We’ll come back to that, later.  The important thing right now is to empty your brain, as quickly as you can so you can stop feeling overwhelmed and actually get something done.

If you really stop to think, it’s more likely that you’ll forget something and start stressing out again.

 

Organise your thoughts

Once you done the brain dump, it’s time to get organised. After you’ve taken a break, sit down with your writing for a moment. Start a new page in your journal (or other outlet) and divide your writing into various categories. This can be done by sectionalising everything based on different aspects of your life.

Categories will vary depending on the general subject matters of your brain dump. However, here are a few ideas:

Categories:

  • Work
  • Personal Life
  • To-Do List
  • Stressors
  • Health & Wellness
  • Appointments
  • Home
  • Bills
  • Hobbies
  • Reminders

Take a look at your list and analyse the categories. This is where highlighters come in handy.

Which thought is the most urgent? Pick two or more pressing items on your to-do list and start with those first.

Also, don’t worry about categorising every thought into a neat list. You can add a separate section for random thoughts. Delete anything that seem unnecessary.

Continue to address each item on the list, but work at your own pace. These things take time!

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Prioritise your thoughts

Now that you have created a couple of different categories, rearrange the items within each list so that you are able to prioritise what needs to be looked after:

  • High priority – needs most attention
  • Medium priority – can wait, doesn’t need to be done today
  • Low priority – low priority, can wait a while

Now you’re ready to start taking action with the information that you produced from your brain dump.

 

 

Repeat

You can do as many brain dumps as you want. Work mini brain dump sessions into your daily routine (for example, maybe each night after you tuck your kids in), or just do brain dumps once a week when you feel your thoughts starting to pile up.

 

Brain Dump Exercise – Final thought

In the end, there is no right or wrong method when it comes to brain dumping. You already have everything you need – your time, your thoughts, and pen and paper.

There are no rules, as well as there are no limits in writing – we can start dumping our thoughts by asking ourselves simple questions or making to-do lists for tomorrow.

Do you practice brain dumping? If you have any tips and tricks that you’d like to share with everyone, I would like to know.

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How to Change your Life for the Better – Simple Guide

Do you feel stuck in life? Do you start your mornings feeling fed up and already tired of the day ahead? Do you often ask yourself how to change your life completely?

Ever found yourself in what might seem like a downward spiral or a rut, where you just can’t seem to understand where your efforts and attempts at keeping your life joyful go?

A few years ago, I found myself in one of those ruts. After spinning my wheels for quite some time, I realised my so-called attempts at improving my circumstances were a farce—I was just exhausting my energy waiting for a saviour to come to my rescue.

It finally dawned on me that I am my own saviour and it was up to me to change my perception of life. The choice was mine to change my situation or live life every day in misery.

Life doesn’t have to be a constant chore or a drag. It can be a wonderful journey I’ve found. Here are 10 ways on how change your life for the better.

 

 

How to Change your Life for the Better – Simple Guide

Move your body every day

Any time you look up how you can improve your life, exercise will be near the top of the list.

If you’ve been avoiding making exercise a consistent part of your life, this may be slightly irritating. But the reason it pops up over and over again no matter where you look is because it matters.

Your body releases endorphins when you get your blood pumping. It makes you feel euphoric. It reduces stress and boosts your immune system. You feel good after you exercise and with the boost in happiness and energy, you are ready to show up for the world.

Challenging your body’s physical limits also helps you challenge your mind’s mental limits.

You will know you have what it takes to achieve crazy goals, because you had what it took to do that 50th press-up. You become stronger physically and mentally, and then you can achieve whatever you set your mind to.

Many people have a complex relationship with their weight, body image, and the word exercise; but it doesn’t have to be so hard.

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Set a goal of moving your body for 30 minutes every day.

  • Walk your dog
  • Do yoga
  • Lift weights
  • Go for a run
  • Hike in the forest
  • Jump on the trampoline with your kids
  • Take a dance class

You don’t need a gym membership or a personal trainer. You just need to find a way of moving your body that feels good to you and do it consistently. Find one thing, try it for a week, and switch it up if it doesn’t feel right.

If you’re not ready for 30 minutes, start with 5. Build the habit of taking time to exercise and increase as you grow more accustomed to it.

If you want to live a happy and fulfilling life full of energy and purpose, taking your physical health seriously is a big part of that.

It was one of the harder habits for me to build, but it was definitely the most impactful of all the things on this list. So, find an accountability buddy and get moving. Track your exercise in an app (I use FitBit). Set a small goal that you can achieve and build up from there.

And don’t worry about the weight. It’s easy to get frustrated and give up when the scale isn’t moving, but exercise is not about the weight!

Exercise is about boosting your energy, your mood, and your lifespan. 

It is not about dropping 10 pounds or getting back your high school body.

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Exercise is great for your mental health! See this article from Mind for more information.

 

 

Start meditating

I remember when I started meditating sitting for 7 minutes was excruciatingly painful. Now I sit for 30/40 minutes and I love it (mostly).

Meditation was the doorway to so many new things for me. It taught me to be more present in my daily life. It taught me to witness or observe my thoughts and feelings instead of getting hooked by them. It taught me to hear my own soul speak.

I knew my meditation practice was making a difference with how I am in my everyday life. I once had a short fuse and temper, but now I am a more peaceful person.

It has had a massive impact on my life.

Instead of having emotional meltdowns, over certain situations, I feel complete peace. I smile joyfully and takes things in my flow.

That is the power of meditation. It naturally turns you into a calmer, more peaceful person. Make it a part of your daily routine.

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The below channels on YouTube are great for guided meditations;

If you want to learn about meditation, the follow channel is excellent:

If you’re interested in learning more in-depth about meditation, then the below books are excellent:

 

 

Early morning routine

Never underestimate the power of a solid morning routine.

A morning routine not only sets your day up for success, but if planned accordingly, it can create additional time in your day to work towards your goals.

This is the magic about mornings.

The time is yours, because it’s happening before the busyness of the day hits.

Beginning a morning routine is one of the most important habits to start right now.

Waking up early is tough (I’m not really a fan either), but it is so worth it.

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Forgive yourself

We are all human beings and that means that no-one is perfect. No-one goes through life and never makes a mistake because if they did, they would lose the very essence of what makes them even.

This year, it’s time to move beyond the mistakes you’ve made in the past and move on with your life.

Many times, we hold onto these mistakes without understanding just how much they hold us back. It’s time to accept that they happened, learn from them and go on with your life.

 

Practice Mindfulness

When you put Mindfulness into practice it will change your life massively!

I can’t explain how much this practice has changed my life. When you’re mindful your life will transform massively.

By living in the present moment, you become at peace with your past thoughts and illusions made up in your mind.

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Observe your thoughts, become at peace with them, take away the emotional attachment.

When you find your mind wandering, revert back to the present moment.

The more you live in the present moment, the mind quickly loses control over you. The mind is a tool that should be working for you, not controlling you.

This takes a lot of practice, as your mind has spent so many years in control. The mind has been projecting its illusions on you all your life.

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Some great channels that I use for mindfulness videos, are the following:

I also recommend the following books to read:

 

 

Set goals

We all tend to have a vision for our life. What does that look like for you? What do you dream of doing?

I know you have something in mind you’ve always wanted to try but have been too afraid to get started.

Is it starting an online business? Is it a career change? Give this one some thought.

It’s time to think about what you truly want out of life and go after it.

It’s never the perfect time, and waiting for the perfect time will keep you from ever starting.

Identify the goals you have for your life, figure out a huge list of actions needed to accomplish these goals, and GET STARTED.

Setting goals is a life improving habit you need start right now. Don’t keep putting it off.

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Focus on growth

It is often failure that can stop you in your tracks however, replacing the word failure with feedback completely transforms your experience.

Any time you feel you are not successful it is feedback you are receiving from what you have done.

What can you learn from this opportunity?

How can you change your approach in the future? What can you do better next time?

This is what is called a growth mindset.

Knowing that you might not be there yet but you are learning and growing in the process is an excellent mindset to hold.

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Rather than feeling restricted by limited talent or ability, you know that with growth and learning you are limitless.

Therefore, focusing on growth will result in an improved mindset and changed behaviour.

You’ll be more prepared and motivated to take on challenges and see your potential in the results.

Whatever result you obtain; you can learn from them and continually improve on them.

This kind of mindset opens you up to a new perspective in experiences and the opportunities around you.

You may find that you even seek out new opportunities as you see the potential of expanding your knowledge and growing into your best self.

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Practice gratitude

Whenever you focus on gratitude you instantly shift to a positive mindset. No matter what is going on in your life, you have the power to shift your focus to gratitude.

I also encourage the use of a gratitude journal – Every day write down or even just note in your mind at the end of each day, focus on everything you’re grateful for in your life and also how those things impact your life. Always aim for at least 3 things.

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Here’s some examples from my own journal:

  • I am grateful for the increase in traffic to my website today
  • I am grateful for the nice walk I had with Jo and Alfie (the dog) today
  • I am grateful for seeing the twins today

Try to make your gratitude note specific to today. So rather than me writing I’m so grateful for everyone who visits my website. I would write, I’m so grateful for all of the people who visited my website today, and I’m especially grateful for the lady who took the time to leave a message saying how helpful my post was to her.

I find practicing gratitude helps you appreciated the small things in life that often get overlooked.

 

 

Declutter

You don’t know how much decluttering your life can change your world until you do it. You can declutter your home of all broken, old, and useless items.

Your home will be more spacious, which will allow you to enjoy it more. Organize the items that are left and you’ll be amazed at the difference. There are other areas of your life that you can declutter also.

Do you have apps on your phone that you never use anymore? Delete them! Don’t replace them with more apps though. Only keep the apps you use on a regular basis. This will save you so much time. You can also declutter your social media and friends lists. Focus on the people who really matter to you.

 

Spend less time on social media/internet 

With the advancement of technology this day, people tend to spend more time on social media than real people.

Social media has taken over the world, people tend to use it for different things. Social media and the internet have made so many people rich but let’s not forget the fact that it has made some not useful.

People spend hours on social media without doing anything. Spend less time on social media and you will see the result you get on a daily basis.

If you have something important to do, I will advise you to get rid of or delete the apps and focus on your business. Use social media in your spare time when you are not using it for business.

 

Ditch the negative people

Negative people are toxic to your life. They will bring down your mood and try to kill your dreams. We all have struggles in our lives, but some people live their life in victim mode. You don’t need this kind of person in your life.

Surround yourself with happy and optimistic people. These aren’t people who act like life is always puppies and rainbows. Optimistic people still have bad days now and then. They know things will get better though.

Negative people complain about anything and everything. When you ditch the negative people in your life you will feel a great sense of relief.

 

Read more self-help books

I just can’t stress it enough, no one can deny the major benefits of self-help books to improve the quality of life, I’m personally addicted to self-development books.Self-help books are life changing, and the best type of books to help you improve your life!

The fact that something someone wrote has the power to change the way I do things just gets me. I get fired up just typing about it.

 

How to Change your Life for the Better – Final thought

I am so much happier this year than I’ve ever been. Part of this is because I’ve intentionally made some big changes in my work, who I surround myself with, and how I spend my time. But a lot of it is just because I picked up a few habits here and there that made me happier, more energetic, and more mindful.

If you’re looking to change your life, I hope you’ve found some inspiration and I hope that you start today.

What are your tips for a better life?

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